(Romans 5:8)…..But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. God has proven His love for you. So don’t doubt it. What proves that God loves you more than you love yourself? He died in your place – suffering the punishment for sin that you deserved, so you could go free. God was more willing to suffer Himself than to see you suffer. Of course, the devil constantly tries to get you to doubt that God loves you. That’s why you must rely on what the Bible says, not what your feelings or circumstances may tell you.
You may think you don’t love yourself, maybe you think you hate yourself. Even if you don’t think too highly of what you have done, you still love yourself in the sense that you desire the best for yourself. You don’t desire pain or loss. So it is with God, He desires good for you even more than you do. And He demonstrated at the cross that He would put your interest before His own.
(1 John 4:16)…..And we have known and believed the love that God has for us. God is love, and he who abides in love abides in God, and God in him.
There are at least two reasons why God loves you so much. First, it is His nature to love. The Bible says that God is love. Love is the word that best describes God’s nature. Second, you are His creation. This should help you understand how God could really like you, even though you may not like yourself very much. Also, God sees you as you will be and will become, not just as you are now. God has faith in you and in His ability to make you someone special.